
Okay, so I didn't check what exactly the content of that mail was.. but I can imagine. It makes me sad how far love has been misunderstood.
currently in phnom penh, cambodia
Always something happening in these maths classes. :)
There are 5 pirates, ranked from the oldest (1) to the youngest (5). After having looted 100 pieces of gold, they return to their island and decide to share the loot and retire. The way they propose to do it is the following:
The youngest pirate proposes first an allocation for the gold (assume that each piece of gold is not divisible). Everybody votes either in favor or against the proposal. If the proposal has strictly more than 50% of 'Yes' votes, then it is implemented and the game ends. If not, then the pirate is killed and eliminated from the game. Then the youngest alive makes a proposal. We do this until one of the proposals is accepted.
For completeness, assume each pirate prefers to be alive rather than getting killed. Also assume that between killing and not killing, a pirate always prefer to kill another pirate.
There is kindness in Love: but Love and kindness are not coterminous, and when kindness [...] is separated from the other elements of Love, it involves a certain fundamental indifference to its object, and even something like contempt of it. Kindness consents very readily to the removal of its object – we have all met people whose kindness to animals is constantly leading them to kill animals lest they should suffer. Kindness, merely as such, cares not whether its object becomes good or bad, provided only that it escapes suffering. As Scripture points out, it is bastards who are spoiled: the legitimate sons, who are to carry on the family tradition, are punished (Hebrew 12:8). It is for people whom we care nothing about that we demand happiness on any terms: with our friends, our lovers, our children, we are exacting and would rather see them suffer much than be happy in contemptible and estranging modes. If God is Love, He is, by definition, something more than mere kindness. And it appears, from all the records, that though He has often rebuked us and condemned us, He has never regarded us with contempt. He has paid us the intolerable compliment of loving us, in the deepest, most tragic, most inexorable sense.- C.S. Lewis, from 'The problem of pain'